Together with their families
Thomas & Mary Catherine
April 17, 2027
St. Louis, Missouri
Scroll
A Life Already in Motion

We met at the Yellow Barn Farm — what started as friendship and quiet respect became the love story of our lives. Somewhere between long conversations and shared silences, we recognized something rare in each other: a person worth building a life with.

We built our home in Bailey, Colorado — tucked into the pines at the edge of the mountains. Our days are full in the simplest way: morning coffee on the porch while the peaks light up, long afternoons on the trail with our pups, evenings spent painting and reading in rooms we've made entirely ours.

We are each other's favorite person. We love deeply and consistently — in the dancing and the laughing, in the quiet and the shared breath. We choose abundance in every element of our days without needing a single thing more.

"This wedding is a celebration of a life already rich with love. Not a beginning — a beautiful marker on a path we walk together, breathing fully, living simply, loving well."
Events
Rehearsal
The Dinner
The Log Cabin Club
1140 Log Cabin Lane, Ladue, MO
Friday, April 16, 2027
5:00 PM

Kindly hosted by Sandy W. Peters II
Five courses, drinks to order, and toasts
from the people who raised us
Immediate family & wedding party
Attire: Formal
Ceremony
The Wedding
St. Peter's Episcopal Church
110 N Warson Road, Ladue, MO
Saturday, April 17, 2027
5:30 PM

Officiated by The Reverend David Burton Hodges
Attire: Black Tie
Reception
The Celebration
The Deer Creek Club
9861 Deer Creek Hill, Ladue, MO
Immediately following the ceremony

Kindly hosted by Clark & Jeanie Davis
An open bar, live music, the foods we love most,
and a few surprises worth saving your voice for
Attire: Black Tie
Travel & Accommodations

Flying In

The nearest airport is St. Louis Lambert International (STL), about 15 minutes from the hotel and all wedding venues. Most major carriers serve STL with direct flights from many cities.

Where to Stay

We recommend the Hilton St. Louis Frontenac — a French Chateau-style hotel minutes from all wedding venues. This is where our families will be staying. Steps from Plaza Frontenac for shopping and dining. Other options are available in the Clayton and Frontenac areas.

Getting Around

All three events are in the Ladue area — within minutes of each other and the hotel. Rideshare is widely available and we recommend it over a rental car. Everything is close.

Explore St. Louis
A city of surprising depth, beauty, and warmth

Forest Park

One of the country's great urban parks — larger than Central Park. Walk the paths, visit the art museum, or simply sit by the Grand Basin.

Saint Louis Art Museum

Free admission. World-class collection. A beautiful way to spend a quiet morning or afternoon on the hill in Forest Park.

Missouri Botanical Garden

79 acres of gardens, greenhouses, and walking paths. April is a stunning time to visit — everything will be in bloom.

The Hill

St. Louis's Italian neighborhood. Walk the streets, stop for toasted ravioli, and experience a neighborhood with real character.

City Museum

Not a traditional museum — more of an immersive, handmade playground for all ages. Truly one-of-a-kind.

The Gateway Arch

An iconic landmark worth seeing in person. The grounds along the riverfront are beautiful for an evening walk.

Help Us Build Our Home

Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift we could ask for. In lieu of a traditional registry, we're inviting those who wish to give toward one thing: the home where our life together — and one day our family — will take root.

Frequently Asked Questions
What is the dress code?
Black tie for the wedding day — the ceremony is in a beautiful historic church, and the evening deserves your finest. For those joining the rehearsal dinner Friday, formal attire.
What should we expect at the reception?
An open bar, live music, and an evening built around the foods we genuinely love — not a plated formality. Beyond that, we're keeping a few things up our sleeves. Come hungry, come curious.
When should I arrive?
We recommend arriving at the church 15–20 minutes before the ceremony. Specific timing will be shared closer to the date.
Will there be parking?
Yes — St. Peter's Episcopal Church and The Deer Creek Club both have parking available. We'll share specific details in the weeks leading up to the wedding.
Can I bring a plus-one?
We are keeping our wedding intentionally intimate. Your invitation will specify who is included. We appreciate your understanding and want every person there to feel truly known and welcomed.
Are children welcome?
We love your little ones. If children are included in your invitation, it will be noted. Please reach out if you have questions.
What if I have dietary restrictions?
Please let us know when you RSVP — we want everyone to feel cared for, including at the table.
Where are you registered?
We aren't — at least not traditionally. We have everything we need for daily life. What we're building toward is a home. If you'd like to give, our Home Fund is the one place we'd be honored to receive it.
Who can I contact with questions?
Reach out to Tommy directly. We want communication to be personal and easy — not routed through a form.
RSVP

We would be honored by your presence. Please let us know if you'll be joining us by March 15, 2027.

You can also RSVP by reaching out to Tommy directly.